HOW TO EMBRACE YOUR INNER ALPHA FEMALE

~ An alpha female is a woman who has embraced her leadership ambitions. She is talented, highly motivated, and self-confident.

Looking at life from an Alpha mindset can help you save energy and time, stay away from the unecessary drama of the everyday, and heal from unpleasant experiences.

Pieces of clothing to add to your wardrobe to be your own Alpha Woman:

(disclaimer: Through this, our goal is not to support fast fashion, rather, to provide tips on staple closet items for teens who need that extra confidence boost through the clothes they wear :))

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Still, when I'm a mess I still put on a vest With an 'S' on my chest Oh yes, I'm a Superwoman

— Alicia Keys

I need to wear either something really short or a maxi dress; anything in between just looks weird.

— Kim Kardashian

"You can wear black at any time. You can wear it at any age. You may wear it for almost any occasion."

—Christian Dior

A reluctant female leader might say:

• I’m not sure if I belong in this leadership role.

• I’m not a natural-born leader.

• I don’t know enough / earned enough / do enough to lead.

A fearless alpha female might say:

• I know I can inspire others.

• I love being a leader.

• I know I can make a great impact in this world.

An alpha woman is all about her confidence. And I know it is easy to say that and then do it, but everyone realizes that not many people care to stare, it's our brains telling us everyone else cares too much.

Some people don't have faith in us women. Especially men.

I'm not saying I hate men. But they do often think they are entitled to more because of the society we live in. Often, our society tends to lean towards the stigma that,"Men doctors are better than women ones" or " I trust a male lawyer over a female lawyer."

After that so many women give up and for what, the things the society says. I believe everyone has a little alpha in them, waiting to whole and show what really are. In today's world, everyone thinks too much about what others think of you, but honey. It only matters what you think about yourself because how others see you isn't important, but how you see yourself is everything. Once you are confident in that aspect of yourself, then girlie, that is what will draw the right people towards you.

What you can do everyday to slowly see yourself in this light:

• Read constantly — start by reading books that you are comfortable with reading, and slowly, move on to reading books that are completely new to you! This will not only develop your exposure to so many important life topics, but also teach you so many traits about powerful and admirable human beings that you can learn to adopt.

• Dive deep into your expertise. Alphas like to be experts.

• Learn about new fields, research, and topics. This ties directly into becoming an expert in the last bullet point :)

• Ask questions.

• Learn from your experiences, and don't be discouraged by your mistakes :).

Be an Alpha in front of a Man - Actions to Take

- Normalize being neutral towards him and his actions -

It's ok if he did not call or text you.

It's ok if he did not like your new post.

Good for him if he found himself a new girls.

You are worth more than the way that anybody treats you. You are worth a thousand roses, a good morning paragraph text, a call to get called beautiful by someone who takes the time out of their day to say it.

Just remember - the way they treat you is just a reflection of themselves.

- Men love something they can't have. If they really like you they will keep fighting for you and proving their love for you. (reference any good tv show or movie :))

- Never reply when you are angry, You will lack clarity and may be led to say things that you did not mean or things you will regret later.

If you got just one thing from this post - remember the phrase - "fake it till you make it." This simple motto, if made yours, is one of the most powerful things that you can say to yourself when you feel like the whole world is crumbling around you. Whatever hardships you may be facing, mustering a genuine smile and taking a deep and grounding breath will help to reset your negative thoughts, rejuvinate and bring breath into your presence, and help you make the day a successful and positive one :)

Women are the most powerful when they believe in themselves, embrace their power, and prove to themselves that they are composed of worlds more than they think they are.

~ With love, Margauex

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